Loved itAnd both are fantastic to be honest. But I just wanted to mention the autobiography here in the non-fiction section.
Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? (2011)
Others: Positive Memories of the author about her difficult childhood as the adopted daughter of an English mother with strong religious convictions, and her subsequent search for her biological mother.
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- 9780099556091
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