Attached (2010)
Introduces the theory of adult attachment as an advanced relationship science that can enable individuals to find and sustain love, offering insight into the roles of genetics and early family life in how people approach relationships.
- ISBN:
- 9781529032178
- Length:
- 294 pages
Genres: nonfiction
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